sometimes we all need a different kind of help
I DO NOT like Bullies
One of the best things about learning a martial art is the Improved Self-Confidence and greatly improved Self-Esteem a student develops, I have seen this so often where a student eventually stands up to the 'Bully',and 99% of the time without doing anything other than demonstrate their newfound confidence. Click on the button below for the website for more info.
CHILDHOOD TRAUMA
This links to me in a BIG way, a few years ago I was told I was suffering from this and was totally unaware of the damage it caused in my life.
I experienced things in my pre-teen years that I would not want any child to experience, the after-effects damaged me for nearly 50 years, I experienced flash-backs to those times and my life was an emotional turmoil, but I kept it inside and could not speak to anyone due to the shame I felt, I eventually found someone to speak to, a psychologist, and for months I managed to tell him what happened and how it affected me and my family, he finally helped me understand and overcome the 'Damage'.
I know I am not the only one, there may be hundreds if not thousands who have had similar or worse experiences that I had, DO NOT hide it like me, click on the 'Trauma' button below to get more info, AND SPEAK TO SOMEONE, it changed my life for the better.
DOMESTIC ABUSE
I cannot agree with any sort of domestic abuse or any sort of violence in general, sounds funny coming from a martial arts instructor but we teach student to fight when they HAVE NO CHOICE, not when they WANT TO. Click on the 'Help for' button for more info.